According to this article, “52 percent of married women say their favorite sexual partner is an ex.”
Sisters in seduction, this MUST not be so! I did not say “should not” or “maybe”, I said, in all caps, MUST not be so.
There is principle of behavioral studies that states, “Actions beget the feelings.” Simply put, if one wishes to feel a certain way, they must act in that way and then the feeling will come. The feelings do not come of their own accord. You can choose to change this by making the man you have now the man of your sexual desires.
For example, If I want to feel like my husbands mistress (shameless plug), I can not wait for him to make me feel like I am a sexy woman who is greatly desired. No, I must behave that way first. I must create the situations that allow the deep emotion to flow in a great big, fat, long, moment of passion; better yet, moments and many of them.
How can he know what the secrets of my heart are? Telling him would be cheating and quite dull; not a recipe for a favorite lover. I must tease and lead and direct him to the destination I yearn for. I must put him on the tender path that burns to my heart. I want him to make love to me; not go through the motions and feelings of a past lover, and vice a verse. But I must act to ensure the destination is reached.
If you suffer from this predicament, “take action.” Its in your power! Find the treasure of love and fulfillment in the arms of one who is madly in love with you. It will lead you to a much happier place as the guilt of an ancient and over glorified moment is displaced by a much richer and more powerful set of feelings.
Be bold, be decisive, be adventurous, be seductive, be his lover, be his mistress and he will fall at your feet!